Please, fill out the "About Myself" box in your profile! It doesn't have to be a complete essay about yourself, but even a sentence or two about who you are and what you're looking for will go a long way toward making your profile more personal. It's one of the first things people read when they see your profile and it can help people get some insight before reading the rest of your preferences. The preferences give you a chance to detail what type of relationship you're looking for, but making your profile more personal will make it stand out and it will give you a better chance of making a match.
For everyone who hasn't filled out the rest of your profile (especially the Spanking Preferences section), please do that as soon as you can. We have so many different types of spankos here that it's difficult to connect unless you've made your preferences clear.
Good luck, everyone!